Choosing Connection
Let us help you navigate the deep waters of betrayal trauma and sex addiction
At Genesis Connection, our goal is to help the betrayed heal, help the betrayer work toward freedom from sexual addiction, and then to help you heal as a couple. We want to help you navigate through the rough waters of sexual betrayal.
God created people for connection and when that connection is broken due to infidelity, it causes a devastating fracture in the relationship. Whether the infidelity betrayal was due to porn use, affairs, or any other unwanted sexual behavior, the damage to the relationship is extreme.
Corrin’s story
Corrin DiPasquale, CLC, APSATS-c, CDGC-c
ERCEM Trained
Betrayal trauma coach
Pure Desire Group Leader
As a person who has experienced sexual betrayal myself, I can understand, validate, and support partners experiencing betrayal trauma.
In June of 2006, my world imploded. I had just found out about the unfaithfulness of my husband of 18 years. I found out he had been unfaithful to me the entirety of our marriage. My reality was no longer my reality. I honestly did not know what my reality was anymore.
Because there was not a lot of help back then, I was incorrectly advised by spiritual advisors that if I remained calm and let my husband confess all that he had done, he would then be free, I could then work on the forgiveness part and we could then just move on with our lives.
However, this did not end up being the case. In November of 2018, I received another big D-day from him. If you are unaware, D-day stands for Discovery or Disclosure Day, when you find out your primary attachment partner (your spouse) has been unfaithful to you. This time, I discovered even more information. The rabbit hole was even deeper than I thought, I found out my husband was a sex addict. This new information sent me spiraling down into depression. I literally had no hope. I could not see how I could get past this. Not only could I not see how I could ever trust my husband again, but it made me not be able to trust anyone, including myself.
If the person who was supposed to love me the most and have my back, could do this to me, how could I trust anyone else? I was also met with the question of how I could trust myself if I didn’t even know he was doing this. How could I be such a fool? If this was not bad enough, the shame that goes along with this type of addiction makes you want to hide from everyone. You are then left alone in misery and shame. This is not to mention the fact that because this is an addiction, it just doesn’t go away that easily or quickly. It can seem completely hopeless when you mix this with other relationship conflicts and the realization of lies, deception, gaslighting, blame-shifting, and manipulation throughout your marriage.
I can now honestly say that God has done an amazing work in me to help me heal from all this. I am now experiencing post-traumatic growth where I can now see it as beneficial to my life. I have gone from disempowered to empowered. Does that make me happy that I had to go through all this, I would emphatically say NO! However, by God’s grace he can use what the enemy sought to use to destroy my life to help others navigate through the deep waters of betrayal. This is why I became a coach. Since God does not waste the difficulties in our lives I consider it a blessing to be a vessel for Him to help others.
As a trained professional, I can do just that! I have spent many hours in training to help other ladies like myself. I have been trained to be a certified coach who specializes in Betrayal trauma. I have obtained APSATS training in order to coach my clients from a trauma perspective rather than as a codependent. I am trained to help you go through a full therapeutic disclosure. I have also been trained to be a betrayal trauma peer facilitator through A Door of Hope. I hope you will let me help you get through the darkest and hardest days of your life.
Jim’s story
Jim DiPasquale, CLC, CDGC, ERCEM Trained
Sex Addiction Coach
Pure Desire Group Leader
I carry a story that’s been shaped by struggle, redemption, and a deep desire to bring hope to men wrestling with compulsive, unwanted sexual behaviors—and to those navigating the betrayal trauma that so often ripples through the relationships they hold dear. My journey hasn’t been easy, but it’s one I share with great expectation, trusting it can light a path for you toward healing, relational intimacy, and the life God intended for marriage and family.
I know the battles men face—emotional turmoil, sexual compulsivity, the weight of shame. Statistics tell us there are countless others out there, silently fighting the same war. I’ve walked that road myself, and through the hard-earned lessons of my own experience, I’m here to help you navigate the deep, turbulent waters of relational pain. My prayer is that God will use what I’ve learned to guide you toward a healing process rooted in His grace—a process that’s transformed my life and the lives of so many others caught in these struggles.
You don’t have to face this alone. I’m committed to offering you a safe, non-judgmental space—a place of raw honesty where you can unpack the feelings and thought patterns that have led you down this agonizing road of brokenness. Together, we’ll uncover truths about yourself that, with God’s help, can break the chains of unwanted behaviors and lead you into freedom.
My own story is marked by tragedy—painful chapters of deception and addiction that once threatened to destroy everything I loved. But I believe what the enemy meant for harm can be turned for good. I’ve felt the crushing weight of isolation and the sting of broken trust, but I’ve also found a way out—into the light of openness, honesty, and connection. Now, I’m here to help you find that same path. Through one-on-one coaching and group sessions, I’ll walk with you to identify the roots of those unwanted choices, develop healthy ways to cope, and dig into how your past might still be shaping your present. This is deep work, but it’s worth it.
I’m confident there’s hope for you—hope to transform your mind, to rebuild or strengthen the relationships you cherish, and to step into the life you long for. You’re not defined by where you’ve been, but by where you’re going. I’d be honored to work with you, to see that hope come alive. Let’s take that first step together—there’s light ahead.
For the Betrayed
We offer one-on-one coaching to help you stabilize you life. We will treat you with the utmost empathy. We will work toward helping you feel safer and more empowered in your relationship.
For the Betrayer
We offer experienced help to be able to get free from your addiction, but also to stay free.
FOR THE COUPLE
We will work with you together to figure out the dysfunctional dynamics in your relationship. Since Sexual betrayal severely affects relationships, it is important to heal in relationship.