Choosing Connection
Let us help you navigate the deep waters of betrayal trauma and sex addiction
At Genesis Connection, our goal is to help the betrayed heal, help the betrayer work toward freedom from sexual addiction, and then to help you heal as a couple. We want to help you navigate through the rough waters of sexual betrayal.
God created people for connection and when that connection is broken due to infidelity, it causes a devastating fracture in the relationship. Whether the infidelity betrayal was due to porn use, affairs, or any other unwanted sexual behavior, the damage to the relationship is extreme.
Corrin’s story
Corrin DiPasquale, APSATS, CLC, CDGC-c
ERCEM Trained
Betrayal trauma coach
Pure Desire Group Leader
As a person who has experienced sexual betrayal myself, I can understand, validate, and support partners experiencing betrayal trauma.
In June of 2006, my world imploded. I had just found out about the unfaithfulness of my husband of 18 years. I found out he had been unfaithful to me the entirety of our marriage. My reality was no longer my reality. I honestly did not know what my reality was anymore.
Because there was not a lot of help back then, I was incorrectly advised by spiritual advisors that if I remained calm and let my husband confess all that he had done, he would then be free, I could then work on the forgiveness part and we could then just move on with our lives.
However, this did not end up being the case. In November of 2018, I received another big D-day from him. If you are unaware, D-day stands for Discovery or Disclosure Day, when you find out your primary attachment partner (your spouse) has been unfaithful to you. This time, I discovered even more information. The rabbit hole was even deeper than I thought, I found out my husband was a sex addict. This new information sent me spiraling down into depression. I literally had no hope. I could not see how I could get past this. Not only could I not see how I could ever trust my husband again, but it made me not be able to trust anyone, including myself.
If the person who was supposed to love me the most and have my back, could do this to me, how could I trust anyone else? I was also met with the question of how I could trust myself if I didn’t even know he was doing this. How could I be such a fool? If this was not bad enough, the shame that goes along with this type of addiction makes you want to hide from everyone. You are then left alone in misery and shame. This is not to mention the fact that because this is an addiction, it just doesn’t go away that easily or quickly. It can seem completely hopeless when you mix this with other relationship conflicts and the realization of lies, deception, gaslighting, blame-shifting, and manipulation throughout your marriage.
I can now honestly say that God has done an amazing work in me to help me heal from all this. I am now experiencing post-traumatic growth where I can now see it as beneficial to my life. I have gone from disempowered to empowered. Does that make me happy that I had to go through all this, I would emphatically say NO! However, by God’s grace he can use what the enemy sought to use to destroy my life to help others navigate through the deep waters of betrayal. This is why I became a coach. Since God does not waste the difficulties in our lives I consider it a blessing to be a vessel for Him to help others.
As a trained professional, I can do just that! I have spent many hours in training to help other ladies like myself. I have been trained to be a certified coach who specializes in Betrayal trauma. I have obtained APSATS training in order to coach my clients from a trauma perspective rather than as a codependent. I am trained to help you go through a full therapeutic disclosure. I have also been trained to be a betrayal trauma peer facilitator through A Door of Hope. I hope you will let me help you get through the darkest and hardest days of your life.
Jim’s story
Jim DiPasquale, PSAP, CLC, CDGC-C, ERCEM Trained
Sex Addiction Coach
Pure Desire Group Leader
I carry a story shaped by struggle, redemption, and a deep desire to bring hope to men wrestling with unwanted sexual behaviors, and to those navigating the betrayal trauma that ripples through their most cherished relationships. My journey hasn’t been easy, but I share it with confidence that God uses real stories to light the path toward healing, intimacy, and the life He intended for your family.
I know the battles of emotional turmoil and the weight of shame firsthand. But I’ve also discovered something life-changing: freedom doesn’t come through trying harder, it comes through knowing the truth. As Jesus said,“You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.” Real recovery is not about behavior management; it’s about renewed thinking, restored identity, and learning to live from the new life Christ has already given us.
Through the hard-earned lessons of my own recovery, I help men navigate relational pain in a way that is rooted in grace and truth. Together, we uncover the thought patterns that fuel broken choices, replace shame with truth, and build healthy ways to cope, connect, and grow. My approach integrates practical tools with the transforming reality of the exchanged life,
“I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.”
~(Galatians 2:20).
As an ERCEM-trained PSAP, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for raw honesty, where healing begins not with condemnation, but with truth, responsibility, and grace. You are not defined by your past. You are defined by who you are becoming in Christ.
You don’t have to walk this road alone. Let’s take the first step toward connection, freedom, and light together.
For the Betrayed
We provide gentle, one-on-one coaching to help you find stability and healing. With deep compassion and a trauma-informed approach, we walk alongside you to foster safety, empowerment, and renewed hope in your relationships.
For the Betrayer
Discover compassionate, experienced guidance to break free from addiction and embrace a hopeful, identity-rooted journey to lasting freedom.
As Early Recovery Empathy Model (ERCEM) trained guides and Restoring Truth: Full Therapeutic Disclosure (Kintsugi Method) practitioners, we offer compassionate, trauma-informed support to help couples heal together. We gently explore unhealthy dynamics, fostering a safe space to rebuild trust, restore connection, and nurture hope in your shared journey of recovery from sexual betrayal.